To Please God. 1Thessalonians 4:1 Certain qualities distinguish those who faithfully teach God's word from others. In this final part of 1st Thessalonians, Paul goes beyond simply encouraging the Thessalonians because of their evident interest and dedication to the Gospel. These were straightforward people who needed plain talk and clear instructions to avoid misunderstandings. Paul did not want them to be "ignorant" about the Lord's return and how it would happen. But before addressing their apparent concern about losing loved ones, he needed to clarify one more point regarding that upcoming event.
Those involved in the work of the Gospel need to go beyond the basics of the truth they preach to others and focus on practical sanctification themselves. They are willing to teach what is necessary, not just what people prefer to hear. Sexual immorality was a serious social issue that needed attention then, and it still does now. That is what a sincere and genuine teacher will do. They will explain things in a clear, organized manner so that all aspects of life make sense—both common sense and spiritual understanding.
A lifestyle that pleases God involves being committed to the teaching of God's word, maintaining consistency in daily conduct, remaining steady despite a changing world, and growing spiritually. The significance of this is highlighted when Paul used two urgent words, “beseech” and “exhort,” to emphasize his message.
To “beseech” is an urgent appeal similar to the word “beg” that we use when something is needed and cannot be delayed. To “exhort” suggests the urgency of the matter because of who is behind this – the Lord Jesus Christ. When this is declared in the way it is used here, it could not be postponed until it was more convenient. It had to be done immediately.
Given the pressures of that era when Paul wrote and the need to live in a way that pleases God, he chose to use the word "beseech" instead of a command. Beseech is a word used between equals when making an earnest appeal. In God's family, respect among believers must be cultivated. We can't assume that everything we say will be warmly received. People may think, even if they don't say it, "Who does he think he is, telling me what to do!" It is appropriate to approach sensitive issues with beseeching and "exhortation." Urging the Lord's people to act a certain way requires a legitimate voice of authority behind it. Paul had the right to encourage the Thessalonians to please God because that authority came from the Lord Jesus, who is the highest authority there is. Our relationship with Him is maintained when we please God, which involves our "walk"—our daily conduct. It’s not enough to adopt Christian traits on Sundays and live like the world the rest of the week.
Paul taught the Thessalonians that pleasing God involves more than just hearing His Word—it requires applying it through an exemplary life that was unfamiliar to them before but now aligns with a holy people serving a holy God. Believers who are rooted and grounded in love grow in their faith and will continue to please God, even if it contradicts the life and social norms of those around them.