1st Peter 3:8-22 THE PILGRIM'S SUFFERING FOR RIGHTEOUSNESS
The concluding part of the book of first Peter begins with the word "finally" as the teaching and exhortations are summed up. He had addressed "dearly beloved," slaves, wives and husbands, and now again has all Christians in general in his mind. All of us need to be aware of the fact our daily conduct is a witness to those who are not saved. Our behavior is expected to be exemplary, and our integrity without question. Attitudes are important as we live among and respond to the hostility of those who do not believe on our Lord Jesus Christ.
Oneness of mind indicates a common purpose of believers is to glorify God. This does not mean we all have the same opinion about everything, but that in harmony with our brothers and sisters, we have the same objective. Compassion, a sympathetic response to the needs and feelings of others will move me to meet those needs in the best way I can. In the family of God, love to our brothers and sisters will lead me to demonstrate that love by helping, encouraging and supporting them. "Pitiful" indicates a tender-hearted person is sensitive to others with a compassion that moves me to care for them. This inner affection is not a calculating attitude, but is spontaneous by nature. Courtesy is the attitude of humility that is Christ-like. When another person has a good success, I rejoice with that person and encourage them to go further. The person with a humble mind will be gentle and understanding toward others. All of these qualities are seen in Christ and it is our purpose in life to reflect Him.