1st Timothy 3:11. “Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.” WIVES – WOMEN. Her compassion is obvious; her understanding of needs she must meet Is plain to her without insistent designation Awareness of things around her – and others Motivates her to act on behalf of others for the Lord’s sake.
No one would consider her a fly-by-night; here and gone: Nor does she spend time looking for faults to accuse in others. She has a larger work, made obvious to her by God The Holy Spirit witnesses to her of needs of sisters and brothers.
She has been – and is – trusted in what she does. The evidence is there to be seen – her work speaks for itself – And she is approached by others because she is approachable – There is a temperate balance in her service for God.
This is not a separate office designated for women only – This is common sense in a woman who is sanctified by God. And she rises to the occasion; sees a real need – Doesn’t demand that others do what she won’t do.
The awakening interest in others is a work of God in her. “If you count me worthy…” – her home is open. The whole church has need of help – she steps in to give: Phebe is a true servant fulfilling a needed work.
A young woman wonders what to do next – and worries. A beckoning call comes from one older – and a visit. A person’s needs and habits are discussed – a spiritual solution. A woman-servant, a hand-maid of the Lord, is content with God’s work.
“Bless the women who serve Thy people so faithfully, Father God. May they find joy and significance in the calling Thou hast given them. May the work Thou hast entrusted to them bring much glory to Thee, and satisfaction to them. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen.”