A STEWARD. Titus 2:7 A bishop (overseer) acts as a steward of what belongs to God. While the elder and overseer are the same person, “elder” signifies maturity and experience that qualify him for his role. Conversely, “overseer” refers to being responsible for tending to “the flock of God,” God’s household. The congregation belongs to God, not the overseers. This verse lists certain negative qualifications.
A steward of God must be blameless because they represent God. They are responsible for God's things, His work, His church, and His family in a godly manner. Their life and work should be above reproach in morality and sound doctrine. There are certain things they should not be. They should not be arrogant or stubborn. They should not be quick-tempered or touchy. They should not habitually drink wine or be abusive, as those who have that habit often are. They should not be violent or physical when they disagree with others, nor should they be covetous or greedy. A stubborn individual who refuses to listen to or consider others' opinions is not suitable to be a leader in an assembly led by a godly group of men appointed by the Holy Spirit of God. A dogmatic person who refuses to consider the spiritual insights of others causes unrest, discontent, and division among God’s people. A man with an uncontrollable short temper is also disqualified. Self-control can address this issue. When a man realizes he has the problem, the Spirit of God within him gives him the ability to remain silent when necessary, and when he speaks, to do so in a calm, controlled tone of voice in a dignified manner because he has brought “into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.” People who are “given to wine” in some societies are simply drunkards. However, in other cultures and countries, it is seen as an everyday beverage. Nevertheless, if it is overused, overindulged in, and necessary to function normally, it disqualifies someone from being a leader. They are under the influence of a spirit that is not the Holy Spirit. “No striker” appears to suggest that some men use physical violence to maintain control over others, much like a harsh master would treat a servant or a slave. This kind of intimidation disqualifies a man who might have authority in the world but cannot lead the household of God’s children. Children need compassion, firmness combined with careful control, demonstrated care, and comfort when needed. The fifth negative characteristic relates to a man’s perspective and use of money. If someone is never satisfied with what they have, their attitude, or lack of feeling and urgent desire for more, disqualifies them due to latent covetousness. All of these five vices are traits of a self-centered person, offering insight into their character. A person's lifestyle can significantly influence their relationships with others. A caring steward considers both his Master and his Master’s flock whom he is to look out for, feed, nurture, care for, and comfort.